Devastation after a Landmark cultist seminar

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Devastation after Landmark by “J”

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I’m a 54-year-old woman, I have 1 brother who is almost 56, he lives with our father. A couple of months ago my brother was introduced to the Landmark by a friend, he subsequently attended the forum A 3-day course and the follow on seminars, he has also registered for the advanced course.
He has never been diagnosed, however, his behaviours are all strongly indicative of a covert narcissistic personality disorder. I was therefore concerned when this course came up, (due to a long history of difficulties with him) and because he was being very secretive about the whole thing, alarm bells were ringing! I found out it was Landmark and became even more concerned when I had done some research, I attempted to explain my feelings which were ignored.
The effect of the course on my brother was immediate, he became automated in his speech and actions it was very disconcerting, he would communicate fairly normal with me and my father (albeit inserting landmark isms any opportunity )but would completely shut down on his own with me, uncomfortable silences doesn’t cover it. I’m pretty sure contact with landmark staff was a constant as well at this point.
His moods became more frequent and intense, on one of these occasions I attempted to challenge him about how abusive he was being, in an instant he went into a rage and violently assaulted me. This was a very serious physical assault that could easily have been fatal had a few elements been just slightly different.
The next day there was no contact but he went along to the seminar that evening. I received a carefully worded text from him the next day, followed by 2 further texts a day 20 and 21 after the assault when he finally accepted full responsibility!! I believe he was being advised on what to say to me and when!
Due to the severity of this incident and the very real potential for another possibly worse, I cannot have any more contact with my brother and therefore sadly my father whom he lives with and is very much under his control. This has utterly devastated our family beyond repair, I may never see my father again. The impact on me has been traumatic in every regard.
In Landmark’s 6-page disclaimer paragraph 4 they strongly advise “those who have emotional problems do not participate “due to possible effects…for example in paragraph 6…”ranging from mild psychotic behaviour to psychosis…in less than 1%(?..reported to them) suicidal or other destructive behaviour “. Participants then have to sign a consent section…”I hereby indemnify landmark….harmless from all loss, cost, obligation or damage arising out of my participation “
What are the realistic chances of someone with a mood disorder/emotional problems/personality disorder etc admitting to it….landmark do nothing to screen their participants. This is totally irresponsible and downright dangerous to such people attending and those around them. Although my brother has had these problems he did have some degree of control up to the point where he attended landmark. They are fully aware of the potential damaging effects their ‘unique techniques ‘ can have thus the 6-page disclaimer, but all they care about is not being sued and selling more courses.
I absolutely hold them responsible for the deterioration of my brother’s moods/behaviour. As to my assault and therefore the destruction and loss of my family and emotional distress that goes with it…….What do you think? Is it cause and effect or just an accident?
I am sure Landmark has a few courses for whichever option you decide is the right one.
Many many thanks to Mike for his support and this site.

It is always good to research things before rushing to a course that could affect you for the rest of your life. These show you how different people react to this organisation. Landmark give you the impression some professional who has done the course will jump ship but suddenly he is on board and is working in the engine room.

 

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